The best deceptions are the ones that seem to give the other person a choice. Your victims feel they are in control, but are actually your puppets. Give people options that come out in your favor whichever one they choose. Force them to make choices between the lesser of two evils, both of which serve your purpose. Put them on the horns of a dilemma: They are gored wherever they turn.
L31 is the option-design doctrine in product, partnership, and negotiation. Most operators default to "show the counterparty all options"; L31 says select the option set. The Naval pairing: show just enough options for the counterparty to feel respected, just enough narrowness for them to choose in your favor. The failure mode: appear controlling — which Navy's appearing-vs-being warns against. The synthesis: control the meta-frame, not the specific moves.
Choice architecture as power. The Naval framing: when you're negotiating, you usually have less range than you think; structure the choice set so every outcome serves your actual interest. Machiavelli's the-new-prince problem applies — new actors design options badly.
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