You can die from someone else's misery — emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
This is one of Greene's most defensible laws. Operators who try to save people from their own trajectory end up loaded with the saving burden. The Naval corollary: spend time with the most ambitious people you can find, not the most in-need. The exception: leadership roles where the job includes rescuing.
Emotional contagion is structural. The Naval specific-knowledge principle: the people you spend time with are the most expensive decision in your career. Greene's framing is colder; Naval's softer. Both point at the same move.
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