The rule for what belongs in a shared brain vs a personal brain is not 'private vs shareable by intimacy' — it's 'jointly relevant vs not jointly relevant.' A page can be intimate AND jointly relevant (mirror it); a page can be public AND not jointly relevant (don't mirror). The Pond-test is simply: 'Would the joint partner benefit from seeing this for the joint venture / joint life?' Intimacy is not in the test.
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