The viral quote 'you don't deserve me at my best if you can't handle me at my worst' is often framed as empowerment, but it's actually a warning sign of emotional volatility weaponized as a relationship requirement. A partner who frames their worst behavior as something you're obligated to tolerate is testing your boundaries before you've even established them. Healthy relationships don't come with a hostage clause.
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