Relationships operate on categorical tiers, and sex is the boundary event that forces a promotion. Friends-with-benefits is a category error because it asks the relationship to stay at the "friend" tier while simultaneously occupying the "sexual partner" tier. You can be in friendship (no sex) or something more intimate (sex + tier promotion) — but you can't be in both tiers at once.
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