Hussey immediately flagged 'find someone who loves you more than you love them' as the worst relationship advice he's heard — and the reason is structural. A relationship built on an imbalance of effort and affection doesn't create security; it creates a power dynamic where one person holds leverage and the other performs gratitude. Real intimacy requires mutual investment, not strategic under-loving.
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