Most people approach dating by creating a checklist of qualities they want in a partner and then searching for someone who matches it. Hussey's advice flips the script entirely: once you've defined what truly matters to you in a partner, your job is to become that person yourself. This reframes dating from a search problem into a self-development problem, and naturally attracts the kind of person you want because you are that kind of person.
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