A working-class fatherless kid can go years without ever hearing anyone at the table say 'My dad always says...' or 'My dad taught me that...'. Military service sometimes surfaces the phrase; college introduces it wholesale. The remark is a diagnostic — its absence in a kid's speech reveals not just paternal absence but a missing channel of inherited wisdom, opinions, and life hacks. Henderson's variants: 'My dad taught me that cooking is an art but baking is a science,' 'My old man likes to say that if you want to win you gotta hang with winners.'
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