Using OkCupid data and large relationship datasets, Stephens-Davidowitz finds that your own baseline happiness outside the relationship is by far the biggest predictor of your happiness inside it — looks and income barely matter once mood is controlled for. The implication is uncomfortable: optimizing partner selection on profile attributes is rearranging deck chairs; the variable you actually control is your own psychological floor.
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