Reframes father absence from individual tragedy into a compounding, class-divided cost: every unasked career question, every networking contact you didn't inherit, every unmodeled adult relationship is a tariff levied on the fatherless. Patrice O'Neal, raised without a dad, didn't recognize the full cost until he was 40 — most fatherless kids simply lack the reference point to name what's missing. The frame comes from Henderson's friend's father, who used it for pocket-change annoyances (parking fees, ATM surcharges); Henderson extends it to the largest unpaid debt a kid can carry.
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