Men bond through insult, women through flattery — and neither means it

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The male-warrior hypothesis predicts a behavioral signature: men test and strengthen same-sex bonds by trading abusive insults they don't literally mean, while women and girls do the inverse, over-praising their friends in ways they don't literally mean. Young male monkeys do the same with a finger-up-the-nose probe. The bonding routines are anti-symmetric, which is why male friendships look hostile on the surface but activate instantly under threat, while female friendships look warmer on the surface but fracture more easily.

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